Money
was talking to lynn yesterday about some job thingys and it led to money..
Coz of the expensive things she used to buy before she marry..
I was like:" do u earn alot? y spend on branded stuff? "
Her reply was she didnt earn alot however she still got money for her to spend..
Not coz her parents were rich..
Coz she know how to save too..
After marriage, she tend to buy clothings which are more cheaper..
Coz everything have to be pay by both husband and wife..
True..
She says whenever a child says they want to marry their parents will ask: ARE YOU READY?
when they asked this question is not only referring to the partner u are spending ur life with..
But also financial wise..
All the bills, house loans, food, transport, (if got kids) education, clothings, daily needs and blah blah blah..

I was like how can some family who are poor but they still can survived..
Her reply was HONESTY..
She explained to me: the muslims believed that as long as you are honest and do not steal or try to do something bad to get more money than @ the end of the day you still have money left..
Those people who steal or do evil deeds is usually because they do not have enough money to spend..
But where had all the money gone to eventually?
She said that there are different pple out there who spend their money on the same things..
But do they really need it?
Evil might be controlling our mind to spend our money..
Than what about rainy days?
I cant agreed more with what she told me last night..
Coz I knew once I have money,
I will spend like nobody business..
But I guess I need to change my habit..
I need to change my lifestyle..

I know money dun come easily..
But there are alot of things I want..
Why do some people have the things they want without spending a single cent?
While I need to work so hard to get my cash and spend on all the things I want and paying the bills that I'm using..
People can spend a minimal amount to enjoy the same things that I'm enjoying..
But I tends to pay the full price if I could fork out..
If not I will not join in the fun..
Sometimes there are things I never understand..
And I think I will never ever know the answer to my doubts..